A Nation Divided Even in Victory

If you ask me, this is both a very proud time and also a very embarrassing time for our country.

On one hand, Sunday evening we finally saw some sense of closure after nearly a decade of war against an intangible enemy.

On the other hand, there’s a good chunk of our population either proving its own ignorance or acting like drunken frat boys as a result.

This should be a relieving, yet somber time for Americans, to see the leader of the largest terrorist group in the world held accountable for the lives of thousands of innocent people. And no, he wasn’t given a trial so much as a bullet between the eyes, but that’s not what I want to talk about this evening. Instead, I want to just take a moment to reflect on the various reactions that we’ve seen in the days that have followed, and what they say about us as a country…

Cheering in the Streets
I think the first somewhat disturbing thing I noticed when watching the news that night and even into the next morning is that there was an awful lot of celebration going on – mainly younger people, gathering in the streets of NYC and DC, chanting and drinking champagne and generally looking like they had just come from spring break. People beamed as they exclaimed, “We finally got that son of a bitch!” and they definitely were taken aback when they noticed that I wasn’t exactly smiling back in return.

Relief, not joy – is the appropriate emotion when you experience a bittersweet victory such as this. Sure, Bin Laden was responsible for the deaths of a lot of Americans, but in the years to follow, Americans were also responsible for the deaths of a lot of Iraqis and Afghanis in the name of our wars, too. In fact, according to one account a Pakistani family was killed during the raid on Bin Laden’s compound. I have a hard time being happy about the casualties of war…

Blatherings via Facebook
Probably where I really needed to just turn my head and walk away, though, was seeing some of the most ignorant and arrogant posts on Facebook from a lot of people whom I try to call friends.

  • Obama didn’t kill Osama, the Soldiers killed him – how dare our President try to take credit for our armed forces when only weeks ago he was arguing to stop paying them altogether!
  • Fuck giving Osama a proper Islamic burial – what about a proper burial for the 3,000 people who died in the twin towers?! Spineless Obama, as always…


Now we all know how misinformation breeds on Facebook and one might suggest that it’s simply a waste of time to bother arguing with the copy & paste idiots who’ve been regurgitating most of this crap, but still…

  • President Obama is the Commander in Chief of the United States Armed Forces, meaning that he gave the executive order for the SEAL Team to kill Osama. He’s not claiming that he jumped out of the helicopter or pulled the trigger on the rifle, but give the man some credit for being the President when it happened, especially when he would’ve taken the fall had something gone horribly wrong.
  • Obama had nothing to do with Congress’s budgetary dicking around because they were afraid of funding women’s rights to do as they please with their own bodies. In fact, he was actually urging them to get their shit together so that the government wouldn’t shut down.
  • And finally, Osama deserves a proper burial because simply put, we’re not like them. Giving the leader of al-Qaeda a proper Islamic burial is a sign of respect for the millions of other Muslims around the world who we’re NOT at war with because as we’ve set to alienate them over the last decade, it’s important that they understand why we were at war with this terrorist leader, not their religion as a whole.

How to Move Forward…
I guess the truly sad thing about all of this is that at the end of the day, I’m not sure if killing Osama Bin Laden will have much of an impact on The War Against Terror at all … in fact, there’s a good possibility that attacks may actually increase as his brethren seek retribution for their own loss. It’s kind of silly to think that killing one guy is going to solve all of our problems, just like it’s silly how people think that it’s our President’s fault that unemployment is high, our economy is in the crapper, healthcare is both in shambles and perfectly fine at the same time, and how oil prices are allowing the oil companies and profiteers to exploit Americans through the gas pump.

At the end of the day, they’re both figureheads and just looking back through our last couple of presidents should be proof enough that removing one guy at the top of the food chain isn’t enough to miraculously fix anything and everything. But that’s part of the job, I suppose, to take the harshest criticisms and whatever minute joys their opposition will allow, and so if it makes people feel better in closure for the grieving process to think that the world is going to be a safer place without Osama bin Laden, then maybe that’s ok … at least in the short term.

In my mind, though, we’ll start truly recovering from the 9/11 attacks of terror when we begin reclaiming some of the freedoms that we actually took away from ourselves in a blind attempt to make each other feel “safer.” Invasive searches at the airport, paranoia over photographers taking pictures in public, aggressive law enforcement officials enabled to encroach more and more in the name of peace – these are the types of things that bin Laden couldn’t paint a target directly on, and yet arguably they’re probably some of the biggest accomplishments from his reign of terror. We wasted almost $1.2 trillion playing his Where’s Waldo? game and sacrificing our own country’s well-being in the name of war, and yet in the end he wasn’t even in either of the two countries that we’ve been occupying for the last couple of years.

Do you have any idea how many schools could be built with a trillion dollars? And hospitals, and safer bridges, and public transit systems? Even memorials … wasn’t there supposed to be some incredible shining beacon memorializing the site of the 9/11 attacks – whatever happened to that??? When we stop chasing ghosts and redirect our focus back onto our own people, that’s when I’ll start smiling about America triumphing over the war on terror…

Back to the movies – FINALLY!

Last night we went to see Arthur, which after having not really gotten the chance to go to the movies in a few months now actually ended up being pretty good. My one complaint was that it seemed kind of long (Are most comedies clocking in at 2 hours now? This seems to be a trend…), but Russell Brand was hilarious throughout and it definitely beat the stigma of the funniest parts being in the trailer.

Although the Bat Mobile scene at the very beginning that had a highlight was a riot, too!

Anyways, thankfully it looks like this marks the point in which movies that I actually want to see start trickling into the theaters once again. Boy, it was really dry there for a while, and even though I’m not super gungho about a lot of these, I’m still willing to give them the benefit of the doubt because, well, I guess I just like going to see movies…

(5/6) Thor
Least anticipated superhero movie, but still curious just because it’s Marvel.

(5/6) Something Borrowed
Chick-flick, I know, but the lead girl is kinda cute and John Krasinski is funny, too.

(5/20) – Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides
Even though this franchise is going downhill, I’m still morbidly curious enough to watch…

(6/3) X-Men: First Class
Actually pretty psyched about this one – the trailer looks kind of badass!

(6/17) Green Lantern
Another superhero movie that sold me with the trailer, Ryan Reynolds may surprise us with this one.

(6/24) Cars 2
Skeptical, but Toy Story 3 taught me not to judge Pixar’s ability even with sequels.

(6/24) Bad Teacher
This just looks funny, and Justin Timberlake is awesome.

(7/1) Transformers 3: Where’d Megan Fox Go???
Terrible story, but giant robots and big explosions still make it worth seeing in IMAX.

(7/15) Harry Potter and the Blah Blah Blah (Part 7-2)
So happy when this series will be over – definitely seeing this one for completion’s sake only…

(7/22) Captain America (formerly The Human Torch)
Any chance that Captain America has the same sarcastic smart ass personalty as Johnny Storm???

(7/22) Friends with Benefits
Mila Kunis was great in Forgetting Sarah Marshall, and Justin Timberlake is Justin Timberlake.

(7/29) Cowboys & Aliens
Mark my words – this might end up being the best action blockbuster of the summer.

(7/29) Crazy, Stupid, Love
The Office may be long dead, but at least Steve Carel has made some funny movies lately.

Did I miss anything???

creepy crab day

I’m not sure which is creepier – the idea of going diving and finding this…

…or staying on land and coming across one of these…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvTFaTDPMSo

Discuss.

Thin Post : My Triumphant Return to WiiFit

So I’m happy to say that as of today, I’ve officially been back into my WiiFit routine for over a whole week! And it may not sound like much, but you’ve gotta start somewhere…


One thing that I’m honestly trying to do different this time, though, is to take it seriously, but not too seriously, and what I mean by that is I’m no longer going to force myself to workout every single day no matter what. Sure, it was really exciting last month when my streak got up to being 13 consecutive days in a row, but at the same time eventually it also became a little demoralizing when I started to slip and realized just how hard it was going to be to get back on top of that goal again.

The problem is, life is busy. I’ve got a lot of other things going on, between writing and still working on getting the house setup and spending time with the wife, and it just isn’t reasonable to expect at least 30 minutes of exercise from every single day, so instead my new goal is 30-45 minutes most days. Whether it’s doing WiiFit or using the elliptical or even just doing laps back and forth in the pool, I still want to try and exercise more often than not, but it’s more important in the long-term for me to be able to pick myself back up and continue after missing a day than just being absolutely devastated after missing my first day in two weeks and feeling like I have to start from scratch all over again. In retrospect it was a bad goal, so I’m replacing it with a better one.

the media is half the problem, and idiots are the other half

It’s stories like this that really make me frustrated with our mainstream media today…

CNN Investigation: Obama ‘birther’ claims have no merit
http://edition.cnn.com/2011/POLITICS/04/25/birthers.obama.hawaii/

The only reason that this is still “news” is because you’re making it news! So there are a couple of hundred people around the country who continue to be emphatically convinced that our president wasn’t born in the United States. In a nation of over 300 million people, there are a couple of hundred people who believe all sorts of crazy nonsense – that doesn’t make it “news!”

And even if it does warrant a story the first time it comes to light, me thinks it’s a bit excessive to continue featuring stories about it more than two years after the fact! The man is on his third year in office … either this is the biggest cover-up since 9/11 (also i a cover up…), or maybe these people are just bitter because they lost and have four years worth of hatred to get out of their systems.

Is there really nothing else in the entire world worth reporting on right now???

Sorry, Sarah – not on my blog…

There’s a feature built into Google AdSense, which I use for advertising on all of my websites, that allows the publisher to ban specific ads from displaying on their sites. It’s mainly intended to be used for competitive blocking so that Pepsi doesn’t have ads for Coke showing up on their site, and while I’ve never really felt the need to block any particular advertising with it in the past, last night when I posted a new update to my beloved pumpkin blog, I was presented with an opportunity that I simply couldn’t in good conscience ignore.


Hopefully this doesn’t cut into my tea-bagging, pumpkin-loving demographic, but Sarah Palin can just go peddle her political craziness someplace else!

Thin Post : HEALTHY Pizza!

Case in point of why I’m kind of excited about this new direction in my weight loss efforts – tonight we made a veggie pizza for dinner … and I actually liked it!


That’s a whole wheat crust, spicy tomato sauce, and four-cheese blend with green and red peppers, onions, mushrooms, and the most surprising of all – eggplant – on top.

Now it’s no secret that I love pizza and if I had to give that up, too, it might be a more difficult proposition to make. That said, if I have to cut back on the stuffed crusts and meat lovers varieties for a little bit in order to be successful, at least knowing that I can still indulge in a slightly different fashion puts my mind, and my stomach, somewhat at ease!

Thin Post : New Inspiration, Also Perspiration

Every little bit helps when you’re trying to lose weight.

Determination, willpower, luck, and in this particular case, encouragement – this is kind of a big deal for me in 2011, so I’m willing to take all the help I can get in pretty much any form at this point. One new thing in particular that I’m kind of looking forward to is some help from my sister-in-law, who just recently moved in with us and will be here for the next two years while she’s going through nursing school herself.

Previously she had been enlisted in the military for a number of years and is also a big fitness fanatic, so hopefully having a fresh perspective around will prove to be a positive influence! Last night the two of us went grocery shopping and she pointed out a bunch of interesting stuff about good vs. not as good foods that I never really worried about before and ultimately I decided to try a few new things to change up my daily eats for the better. She’s also going to be starting some water aerobics with my wife as well which I may jump in on from time to time, so in the end it’s kinda cool that she’s taking an active role in helping Sara and I get healthier!

Of course, the flip side is that being not married to her, she might not necessarily sugar-coat her advice regarding things I shouldn’t be eating and more exercise that I should be doing (“Mmmmm – sugar-coated advice…”), but who knows – at this point maybe a little tough love is what I need to help get me over the hump and back into a reasonable weight range!

Either way, I’m willing to give it a try…

Of Plants & Zombies…

How did I not get around to playing this game sooner?!


My only complaint is that sometimes the game play feels a little slow – same thing I felt during the early stages of Warcraft when you had idle time waiting for resources before you could really start building, but the rest of the game play is really a lot of fun and I love seeing the new plants that you win at the end of each level to use in the next! I’m getting to the point where it’s hard to pick, and hopefully you don’t eventually find some levels impossible without certain ones selected, but so far I’m enjoying it.

Soundtrack is very eerie, too … just as one would expect from the impending zombie apocalypse!