Life, Love and the Pursuit of Happiness…

Ok, so where did I leave off???

It’s hard to believe that I went this long in between updates, but I suppose in the grand scheme of things I’ve just been really busy lately … and for the first time in quite a while, such busy-ness has been completely void of happenings online. “Real Life,” here we come…

So where to start? I’m actually posting this from Michigan, where I’ll be visiting for the next week in honor of Lori’s wedding. Yep, the little sister is getting married and that’s a pretty exciting thing – maybe I’ll look into doing it myself in a few years! But in the meantime, I can live vicariously through her because she seems to be doing well. She’s excited about one of the biggest days of her life, which although pretty much expected, is still cool to see; I met Ray, the fiance, for the first time last night and he seems pretty cool … I’m definitely glad that she’s not marrying a creep; and overall, it’s just good to be home for a while. Living on the other side of the country, I don’t get to see my family all that much, so I guess that just makes times like these all the more special.

Back in Tampa, things are certainly going very well for me, and of course, by that I mean that the previously-mentioned Sara is still around and needless to say, I’m very, very happy. At this point, we’re officially in a relationship together and even though we’ve only been seeing each other for a few weeks, it feels like we’ve known each other much longer than that. I think communication is the key to that because we really seem to mesh together well – we might not always agree on a given topic, but it’s refreshing to be around someone who can not only carry on a discussion without getting offended about having opposing viewpoints, but who’s also ultimately not dependent on sharing the same opinions. The openmindedness is really something that I welcome and it’s just made it so much easier for us to grow attached to each other so quickly…

Also, she’s absolutely adorable, but that’s a post for another day! Maybe if you’re lucky, one of these days I’ll talk her into taking a picture of both of us together that can be posted here.

Anyways, life is just really good for me right now. Not everything is perfect, but who can honestly ever expect it to be? At least for me, it seems like having the right person around just makes all the difference when dealing both good and bad, and I hope it keeps up because it’s really a feeling that I could get used to. Over the next week, I look forward to getting myself back into the swing of writing again…again…starting with some tales of the very vacation that I’m on right now, so that ought to be a good time. I’ll try to make it a point to post more often, but just in case there’s any doubt, I’m doing well.

🙂

It was the best of times, it was the best of times…

So I haven’t posted in a few days, but this time I have good reasons that don’t include putting off my taxes or getting mass quantities of blood withdrawn from my veins. That’s right, folks – hold onto your hats … there’s this girl that I met…

Her name is Sara and she’s an eighth grade science teacher. Surprisingly, we met online just before I took another break because most people are too rude to be on those dating sites, but we kind of struck up some similar perspectives last weekend and started chatting, first via e-mail, then a few days later over the phone. Our first date was Thursday night – we went out for dinner and ended up talking for quite some time … things just really clicked between us and by the end of the evening, I knew that this was a girl who I needed to get to know a little better.

Talk about the understatement of the year!

For our second date, today we spent the afternoon at Epcot and I don’t think that we could’ve asked for a better day if we’d even wanted to – really one of those days that just makes you stop and think … one that you’ll be comparing all others to for a long time. This was the first time that she’d ever been to Epcot, so I knew that it’d be a blast simply because it’s always fun to see someone experience a Disney attraction for the first time, but I would’ve never expected it to be this good. It’s been said that the key to it all is having the right person to share times like this with and although I don’t want to jump to conclusions and jinx it just yet, I’ve got to say that we might be on to something here because today was hands down the best trip to Disney that I’ve ever had, and I’ve been there an awful lot!

There’s just something about this girl that just makes me feel good – I can’t describe it, but needless to say, I really like it. She has this wonderful, bubbly personality and a smile that I could just get lost in – she’s the kind of person who smiles with her whole body and brightens the whole room wherever she goes (I know it’s kind of cliche, but hey – it fits). One of the highlights of my day was the movie in the Energy Pavilion with Bill Nye the Science Guy and Ellen DeGeneres because it was quite clear that she was having the time of her life watching Ellen bounce from one quirky line to another. I could’ve tuned out the movie and just watched her watch the movie the whole time, and still had a ball – what a great way to spend 37 minutes. Of course, that’s not really an accurate measure because really, my whole day was like that … it was as close to perfect as anyone could dream.

Like I said, I don’t want to go too fast and mess things up, but I just feel absolutely amazing right now and Sara is 110% responsible for that. Not to set my expectations too high, although I guess I do because that’s what I’m in it for this time – I really hope this develops into something because I love the way she’s made me feel about myself and that’s exactly what I need in my life right now. Today was probably one of the best days of my life and I hope that we share many more in the days to come. Keep your fingers crossed for me…

Pimp My Snack

http://www.pimpmysnack.com/projects.php

This. Is. Awesome.

I should soooo do a project for this website! Of course, I wouldn’t be able to actually eat it…

“That’s one big Twinkie…”

The Taxman Cometh…Finally
I literally just finished my taxes about twenty minutes ago and didn’t end up making out too bad this year. I’ll have to write a check for just over three hundred bucks, but that’s really not too bad when you figure that I didn’t pay any estimated taxes on my writing income throughout the year. I was a little disappointed that my charity donations didn’t even show up – I thought that the deduction was better than that, so I guess I’ll have to do some more research before I do it this year (not that it’s a bad thing to donate to charity or anything, but in all honestly, I did do it to help offset my expenses). Anyways, I’m not quite ready to mail them just yet – I’m going to go over them again tomorrow night when I get home to make sure everything looks ok, then hike on down to the post office to stand in line with the other half a million idiots who put this off ’til the last minute!

Next year I’ll do it on time, but at least maybe I can get an entertaining column out of it or something…

Fixin’ the Compruder
So I tore my server apart today and it’s now officially dead, as in it won’t even boot anymore and I really don’t care. Now that my taxes are done and I know that I’m not getting killed by Uncle Sam, I’m going to see if I can piece together something new as long as it doesn’t cost me an arm and a leg. I figure I can do it for a few hundred easily, plus a little more if I want to add another hard drive because the ones that I’m using now are gettng pretty old. I pulled the My Documents drive and plugged it into my desktop PC in the meantime and I can’t believe how loud the thing is – I can’t wait to have it back in the closet again! Of course, for about $80 I can replace all three of the 80GB drives with a 300GB and have room to spare – I might just buy two and RAID them together to make future drive crashes a little easier to deal with … we’ll see tomorrow after I run some numbers.

The Art of Deception
I got the book by Kevin Mitnick earlier this week and this is literally one that I just can’t put down! Talk about intriguing – dozens of simply brilliant cons are analyzed as Kevin explains the finer details of social engineering and how even the most secure of protocols can be broken down when people aren’t thinking clearly. I know there a lot of skepticism about the hacking community and some people probably think that Kevin should still be locked away, but like it or not, the man is a genius and that really shines clear in this book. I’d recommend it to anyone who’s looking for an interesting read with a bit of a geeky flare.

random funnies

Here’s Your Sign…
As I was purchasing some new fish from PetCo this evening, the lady behind me tried to make a little small talk – “Oh – you’re buying fish. I see people buying fish in here all the time … do you have a fish tank at home?”

Lord of Pop Culture
Has anyone else seen the new ads for the Lord of the Rings movies on TBS??? They’re all pop-culture-ey and just plain bizarre. The first one I saw made Frodo and Sam out to be gay lovers; the next was showing Gandalf the White as some sort of hip-hoppin’ pimp. Were they afraid that the billion dollar franchise just wasn’t going to appeal to enough people as an epic adventure trilogy?

One Step Away from the Bro
During the aforementioned trip to PetCo, I saw a dude carrying a purse, or technically a clutch, as Lori later clarified. At first I thought it was just a chick with really short hair…and no boobs…and by the time I finally ran out of excuses, he’d ducked into Shoe Carnival and my analysis came to a close.

Does being against wiretapping mean that you support terrorism???

It seems like a stretch to me! I’m reading up on some of the efforts of the newly-formed IPac (Intellectual Property Action Committee) after hearing about it on TWiT and I just can’t believe some of the comments that I’m hearing from people about how these types of efforts (along with the EFF’s) shouldn’t be supported because they encourage terrorism. Apparently because I don’t think that our government has the right to eavesdrop on its citizens without due cause, that means that I’m for terrorism because wiretapping was allegedly put into place only to protect us from bad people.

Seriously, how ignorant are people these days? I’m for terrorism because I believe in privacy, the resident pothead is for terrorism because obviously all drug money eventually gets back to dirty countries, and as circular reasoning would support, anyone who drives an SUV or Hummer is for terrorism because oil is the only damn reason we’re over in Iraq in the first place. Jeesh…

Five Things for a Happier and More Productive Scott

Call it an addendum to my New Years Resolutions, call it just a little list of things that I think will help me overall if I start doing them everyday, but I came up with these over the course of the weekend and told myself that I would put them to work for the greater benefit of, well, me! Hopefully this list will be a little simpler than most, and thus I’ll be able to actually follow it once in a while. Any other helpful ideas for a happier well-being???

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Holy Sodium, Batman … and other tales of woe and whimsy…

Sodium / High Blood Pressure / Doctor’s Visit Update
Last night I went to the grocery store, spent a whole lotta dough on lots of stuff that I can, for the most part, cook myself in an attempt to eat healthier, and I still can’t believe how much sodium is in just about everything!!! When I started to factor in that I normally take in double portions of even healthy stuff like orange juice and canned corn, I honestly don’t see how anybody can stay within the recommended limit of 2000mg per day! I’m sad to say that I’ll likely be cutting out my beloved Campbell’s Chunky soup from the easy to take to work in a hurry menu because a single can was hitting me with nearly 1800mg alone, but even a similar can ranked in at nearly half of that. I’m still gonna do my best to try and limit my intake, but damn…

So anyways, my follow-up appt. with the doc is tomorrow morning and I’ve got a feeling I already know what he’s going to say. I need to cut down on my calories, lose some more weight, watch my sodium intake, and continue to keep an eye on my blood pressure in the meantime to make sure that it doesn’t get any worse. I’m still fairly confident that if I can get down under 200 pounds, that will have a fairly significant impact on everything, and as of earlier today, that goal was only 11.8 pounds away, so at least progress is getting made. 🙂

Computer Woes
Two of ’em this weekend, although there’s not really a whole lot I can do for either of them right now. The major one is that my server PC doesn’t want to stay ON for more than five minutes in a run, which is a bit of a problem because all of My Documents is actually on a drive inside that box. I’ve got a feeling that it’s either a ventilation issue or the power supply is just done – it sits in a closet that doesn’t have any circulation anyways and above all, it was a free PC that I got from work probably five or six years ago, so it’s certainly done its time. I’ve been pricing things out online to see how cheaply I could put something together from newegg.com, if I can borrow a few hundred bucks from my bonus check, but until I finish my taxes (next weekend…ugh), I don’t dare place that order!

My cable modem has also been on the fritz again this weekend, which makes me a little angry because the technician came out last weekend and said that everything was “fine.” Line speed tested at ~6.4mbps down / 480 kbps up, which was good enough for me (I pay for 6000/512). Now I’m lucky if I can break 2.5mbps down, even after receiving a courtesy letter in the mail from Brighthouse stating that they were increasing line speeds in my area to 7mbps free of charge! I know they’re just going to want to send out another technician, which I don’t have time to work around during the week, but this needs to get fixed.

Computer Woas
I finally installed iTunes this weekend because I got tired of having to manually download all of the various podcasts that I listen to each week – man, what a difference! It’s still giving me a few problems because as long as my server is dead, it can’t save things where it wants to, but overall, not too shaby. I can’t see myself actually buying anything from the iTunes Music Store until I can figure out how to get it in the format that I want, but I really didn’t plan to use that feature anyways…

Movies, Movies, Movies…
Didn’t end up watching nearly as much as last weekend, but given the copious amount of nothing that I got done, that probably isn’t such a bad thing! One that did manage to stand out, though, was Constantine, which was apparently a comic book-based action movie that I just completely missed when it was in theaters last year. Good flick, actually, and probably one of the better Keanu Reeves movies that I’ve seen since the original Matrix. I did watch some others, but apparently they weren’t actually good enough for me to remember for the purpose of them being written about right here, right now…

That was a great Van Halen song though, don’t you think?